Originally posted by Nac-horn: Somehow a poor fellow who is serving his country, which most of you have not, had his whorish wife assaulted by a ginger for heaven sakes....and your wanting to burn him down and ruin his career?????? For what? For trying to defend his wife from a perverted freak who no doubt deserves his ass kicked. Even the affliction shirt wearing brother, put yourself in his shoes. Your sister had a ginger put his junk in her hand. I'm sure Kate bekinslut told them the whole story of workplace fantasy and cheeto fetishes. Put your self in their shoes, what would you do if some ginger rubbed his 3 inch killer on your whorish wife. You beat his ass! You should all be ashamed. YOU SHOULD ALL BE ASHAMED!!!!!!!!
Serving/not serving in the military will definitely change the way that people view the situation of the husband. Being in the military I know the rules that I must follow and regardless of how upset I am, I can't act like they don't exist. I'm actually a fairly calm person so the first thing that should be done is look in house, and ask the wife some questions. Was something done to provoke his actions? Why were you in a room alone with him? If I wasn't aware, how long has he worked there? I would then ask the guy the same questions to try and get an understand of why this all went down.
You can't just go and threaten someone, no matter what the situation. There are certain skills that some of us have been taught that could be used to inflict serious damage and possible end someone's life.
I agree that he needed his a** beat for pulling a stunt like that but when your career choice doesn't allow you do just go out and do it, you've got to be more careful. If I had a sister, I would probably go and do the same thing the brother did. Once the husband sent those text message, he left himself liable for just about anything that happened because it could be seen as being done on his behalf. There's no way to prove it but I'm sure there would be at least a letter of counseling or reprimand for his actions. You can't leave a papertrail and then expect to be let off without being held accountable.
I'm not in the corner of burning him down or ruining his career, but the text messages and acts of his brother-in-law could have taken care of that. I doubt it would ruin his career but it will be a red flag about his character and could be looked upon unfavorably in the future.